Black girl dating a korean guy
Sure Korean men ogle women as much as the next guy, but they are extremely loyal. They might even ask you to pick out their outfits every time you go on a date. From there I found your other video to which I am responding.
First, I would just like to commend you for the outstanding work you have done and thank you for navigating these issues of race in the way that you do. For example, while Asian men are usually depicted as feminine due to their lack of height, penis size, or assertiveness, they are also stereotyped as capable of taking over the world i. He pays the bills, and hell, he has even taken you to meet Oma. They want to succeed and want nothing more for you to succeed by their side.
Your Korean boyfriend loves you. Thus, Black American women may feel that Asian men are not sufficiently masculine for them or perhaps that they might be viewed as insufficiently feminine when compared to their Asian counterparts. But if he is too busy to run an errand for the family or if he passes up on a higher-paying job, we all better make a run for it before getting an earful.
However, upon further interrogation we see how such an assessment is not just problematic, but entirely fallacious. This brings me to my final and most important point which is that Black women should not rule out Asian men any more than they would any other kind of guy. Bonus points for plots that include family drama and love stories.
In short, the main thing that I wanted to say is that there is no reason for Black women to hesitate dating Asian men any more than they would anyone else. Every time we sit down to eat, an all-out feast ensues. What is more, we may even internalize them as inherent truths not just for ourselves but also for those of other groups as well.